Meows from Mudpie!
Yesterday afternoon, December 13, my Grandpa passed away here at home.
Since he was on home hospice, a hospital bed was delivered to our house on Friday afternoon. The man who brought it was very nice. He noticed me immediately and called me a meatball! We've had so many medical professionals at our house the past few weeks and everyone has loved me. They all say I have the cutest name. (And one of the people from the funeral home that came yesterday afternoon knew another cat named Mudpie!)
The house is really small so we had the bed set up in the living room right in front of the Christmas tree. Mommy placed me on the bed with Grandpa and I stayed with him for a long time. (It didn't hurt that he had a heated throw over him.) He was pretty much out of it but I think he knew I was there.
So it's just Mommy and me now. I'm going to miss Grandpa so much. He absolutely adored me. Even over the past couple weeks when he's been delirious and having hallucinations, his only moments of clarity were when he asked about me and where I was. He didn't know who Mommy was, but he knew who Mudpie was.
Several years ago Mommy wrote a special Father's Day post, The Making of a Cat Guy. It's a fitting tribute to a wonderful man.
21 comments:
We are so sorry to hear of your grandparents passing. May his sweet memory be forever with you until you all meet again. And may a good rebirth, as we buddhists believe, be his for such a good life.
ERin
Dear Melissa ~ many prayers for you on the loss of Grandpa and know that you, and he are truly blessed for all your wonderful care given to him over time. You held him in your "arms of love". Being a caregiver is not an easy thing to do, and yet it is the most precious and beautiful thing we give to those we love. May he now rest well and easy, in the arms of Gods love and may you always treasure your time together. Fondly, Ann
Beautiful tribute for your Grandpa! So sorry for your loss, sending hugs and prayers for you and the family.
Melissa I am so sorry to hear that your father has passed. You certainly have my condolences. I know your house will seem empty without him. You and Mudpie will carry on together taking care of yourselves.
My heart breaks for you - sending hugs and purrrrrayers
I'm so, so sorry Melissa and Mudpie and we all send tons of love and lots of hugs your way.
I am so sorry for your loss of Grandpa. He rests easy now, but it is those who remain who bare the grief. Sending love and hugs.
Melissa and Mudpie I send warm hugs and prayers to you both. Grandpas are so very special.
Hugs Cecilia
Melissa, Mudpie, I am deeply sorry that your grandpa passed. My son's hospital bed was in the living room too as the house is so small. God bless you, and Mudpie too. You were the world to your Grandpa and so was Mudpie. I loved Conway's song. It was so appropriate...going from you to Grandpa and Grandpa to you. XXXOOOXXX
Melissa and Mudpie, please accept our condolences. This is such sad and unexpected news. Losing family at the holidays is very difficult. Mom's dad died the day after Christmas and one grandma just before New Years and the other right after. We loved the photo you shared, Melissa. Your dad looked so happy. We are sending love and warm hugs as you grieve. Mudpie, we know your grandpa knew you were with him. You are a sweetheart. Thanks for hopping with us! XOCK, angels Lily Olivia, Mauricio, Misty May, Giulietta, Fiona & Astrid, Lisbeth, Calista Jo, Cooper Murphy, Sawyer, Kizmet, Audrey, Raleigh, Gibbs & Tali
Melissa, we are so sorry to learn this. Our hearts go out to you with wishes for peace and comfort.
We are so sorry for your loss Melissa and Mudpie. Our thoughts are with you. Sending love and purrs to you both xx
Melissa, I am very sorry and send you my heartfelt condolences. May God grant you strength during this difficult time. Hugs and loves to you, and mudpie as well ♥♥♥ Laura
We are so sorry fur your loss, purrzz!!!
I love that photo of your dad. I am sorry he passed, but glad he was able to do so at home surrounded by love. Miss Mudpie, make sure you give your mom extra cuddles. XO
Sending purrs for both of you during this difficult time. Losing someone is so difficult but it sounds like your Grandpa was comfortable and loved until the very end.
We're so deeply sorry for the passing of your Dad and Grandpaw, sweet Mudpie and Melissa. We have tears in our eyes, because it's not easy to let go. We know that he knew that you both were there. Soft Pawkisses to comfort you both🐾😽💞
Fly free beautiful Soul✨
This is very sad. But that he passed away at home is, I think, a blessing in a sorrowful time. Godspeed to you, sir.
My sincere sympathy for you both as you mourn the passing away of your dad, and Grandpa. May God surround you with His comfort and may you find peace.
We are so very sorry for your loss, Melissa and Mudpie. Huge hugs to you both♥
My heart aches for you. I will being praying for your comfort and will put, "Please pray for a friend who lost her father" on the prayer list at church.
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